Talking to Oneself and the value.

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Self Talk

Talking to oneself and value.

What is the first dimension or aspect of something you look for whenever you intend to invest your time in it?

 In other words, what benefit do you want in exchange for doing something?

 For example, if you are going to open a shop, the benefit you would anticipate is profit. in a much similar way, we practice this almost every time for our actions in life. So, when someone tells you to speak to yourself you probably ask him/her what benefit or value this practice will provide you. there can be many values associated with it, among which, self-evaluation, being creative, being motivated, having strong future plans, and being self-sufficient are few.

Self Evaluation

First and the most important value associated with self-talking is self-evaluation. You start knowing your strengths and weaknesses, and you start ignoring what others say about you. Once you have known yourself, you can choose what to prioritize and what to ignore. This will benefit you in easily choosing your career and interest.

Being Creative

The second benefit of self-talk is enhancement of creativity. people mostly misunderstand and perceive that creative mind is predetermined, but that is not absolutely true, however, it is also to be noted that yes motivation to be creative is mostly predetermined but not creative mind. if one has the potential to motivate oneself, then one can have a creative mind by practicing self-talk. And creativity has many monetary values. Today, the entertainment industry is in dire need of creative people.

Being Motivated

By this I mean, overall motivation to do any task. Mostly, we do not have much motivation for those things which are not of our interest such as for donations, then how can one motivate oneself for this noble cause, one way is self-talking, by this you will ask yourself what value you are providing to your society. Asking yourself questions of such type will create some sort of motivation in you.

Strong Future Plans

Certainly, most of us do not make formal plans for our informal life, that is a psychological rationale and I can not deny it, but it is equally true that most of us are not self talkers. I have a personal experience of having strong future plans and that is possible because in my all free time I am actually a self talker. By strong future plans, I mean having a clear direction one's future role in society.

Being Self Sufficient

Being self-sufficient means being independent in one's actions and thoughts. Mostly, we are confused about what to do when we are assigned any task and if some new nature of the task is given, but self-sufficient people do not face this problem, they usually start their task when they have a clear idea of what is needed. so, being a self talker has this value associated.

Conclusion

In Sum, I would like to say that one should work on being a self talker and always engage in this in his free time.

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